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You Go First
I was meeting with a client recently, an experienced leader, thoughtful, solution-oriented, deeply invested in her team. She sighed, sat...
Sep 9, 20253 min read


Heads or Tails
I had a moment the other day that reminded me how quickly we can slip into a disempowered mindset without even noticing. I was reflecting...
Sep 2, 20253 min read


Just Because I Can, Doesn't Mean I Should
I remember a time when I was traveling with several of my team members to an event. We were weaving our way through the airport. The line...
Aug 26, 20252 min read


Did I Squash You?
I was driving through a neighborhood the other day when something caught my eye. A lizard. Right in the middle of the road. Doing...
Aug 19, 20252 min read


Please, Make That Stop!
Somewhere above the clouds, I got a masterclass in leadership, and humanity, from the row behind me. It started with the sound of crying....
Aug 13, 20253 min read


The Human On The Other Side
I recently asked a team member to complete a task for me - one with high stakes. Tight deadline. High visibility. Lots riding on it. When...
Aug 5, 20253 min read


How's the Weather?
You’ve probably heard the phrase “climate matters” when it comes to workplace culture. But when you’re leading a new team, or bringing...
Jul 29, 20252 min read


Who Gets Their Way?
I was recently part of a committee, a passionate group of professionals gathered to solve a big issue. Everyone had a strong opinion...
Jul 22, 20252 min read


Slow Down, You Go Too Fast
I remember a moment years ago, early on in my working relationship with a new team member. They had come to me, clearly wanting to...
Jul 15, 20252 min read


How's Your Gas Tank?
I was on my way to a speaking engagement the other day when that light came on. You know the one. The little orange triangle that gently...
Jul 8, 20252 min read


Anyone Wanna Switch?
One time on a plane, I observed a passenger boarding the plane and moving through First Class to call out with a grin: “Anyone wanna...
Jul 1, 20252 min read


I Almost Took You For Granted!
Recently, I had the opportunity to present at a national conference out of state. I was in the conference room, prepping for my session,...
Jun 24, 20253 min read


Just Say SOMETHING!
I was recently thinking about a moment when I completely missed the boat and created a much messier interaction than was necessary....
Jun 17, 20252 min read


The Messy Middle: What Happens When We Skip the Hard Conversations
A client came to me recently, visibly frustrated. “I think I need to let them go,” she said. “They’re just not doing their job.” But as...
Jun 10, 20253 min read


Is That a Blind Spot?
I recently overheard an enlightening conversation between two co-workers. One was talking about a recent communication webinar they both...
Jun 3, 20252 min read


If I’ve Got You, Who’s Got Me?
A few months ago, a client of mine confided, “I’m everyone’s go-to. I hold space, I offer calm, I problem-solve. But I go home at the end...
May 27, 20252 min read


Worse Than a Shark Bite
Have you ever played the game Apples to Apples? It’s one of those card games where someone flips over a word (like “adorable” or...
May 20, 20253 min read


The Eye Roll Said it ALL...
The other day, I found myself at a local business where an employee was clearly having trouble processing my transaction. They fumbled...
May 13, 20253 min read


I Feel Like Dead Weight…
A client recently confided in me during a company-wide reorganization. Their role had shifted significantly, responsibilities had...
May 6, 20252 min read


Am I Right?
A CEO I know was in a meeting when a team member suggested a new approach to an ongoing project. The CEO, confident in their expertise,...
Apr 29, 20253 min read
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